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第54章幸福与娱乐毫不相干
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TheEssenceofHappiness
&hesenewwordsbeforeyoureadthisarticle.
1.glamorous['gl？m？r？s]adj.富有魅力的；迷人的
2.g[kl？？]to忠实于
3.endeavor[in'dev？]n.努力，尽力
4.iably[i？bli]adv.不可避免地；必然地
5.charitable['t？？rit？bl]adj.慈善的；施舍慷慨的；宽容的
6.tribute[k？n'tribju：t]to促成；有助于
&['p？：m？n？nt]adj.永久的，永恒的；永远的
IliveinthelandofDisney，Hollywoodandyearroundsun.Youmaythinkpeopleinsuchaglamorousfunfilledplacearehappierthanothers.Ifso，youhavesomemistakesaboutthenatureofhappiness.
Mapeoplestillequatehappihfuhisthatfunandhappileinon.Funiserienganaessiserie.Itisdeeper，memotion.
Thelegtothebeliefthatafunfilled，painfreelifeequalshappiuallydimiheircesofeverattainingrealhappiness.Iffunandpleasureareequatedihenpaiediinfact，theoppositeistrue：Moretimesthannot，thingsthatleadtohappinessinvolvesomepain.
Asaresult，maheveryehatarethesourceoftreehappihepaiablybroughtbysugsasmarriage，raising，professio，religiousent，civicorcharitablework，andself-improvement.
Askabachelorwhyheresistsmarriageeventhoughhefindsdatingtobelessaisfyi，hewilltellyouthatheisafraidofmakingaent.Forentisinfactquitepainful.Thesinglelifeisfilledwithfuure，ext.Marriagehassuent，buttheyarenotitsmostdistinguishiures.
Similarly，coupleswhoottohavearedefavorofpainlessfunoverpainfulhappiheyeoutwheravelwherevertheyaslateastheyleswithinfantareluckytogetawholenight’ssleeporathree-dayva.Idon’tknoarentswouldchoosethewordfuntodescriberaising.
Butcoupleswhodeottohaveeverexperiehepleasureofhuggiugtheminight.Theyhejoyofwatgachildgrowuporofplayingwithagrandchild.
Buttheseformsoffundonottributeinanywaytomyhappiness.Morediffideav，raisiiionshipwithmywife，tryingtodogoodintheworld—willbringmemorehappihaneverbefoundinfupermahings.
&andingahattruehappinesshasnothingtodowithfuhemrealizationsweevereto.Itliberatestime：nowweorehourstoactivitiesthatelyincreaseourhappiliberatesmoney：buyingthatnewcarorthosefawilldonothingtoincreaseourhappinessless.Aesusfromenvy：wehatallthlamorouspeopleweweresosurearehappybecausetheyarealwayshavingsomuactuallymayall.
&weuhatfubringhappioleadourlivesdifferebe，quiteliterally，lifetransf.
我住在好莱坞迪斯尼乐园，那里全年阳光普照。
你可能认为生活在那么富于魅力，充满乐趣的地方，一定比其他地方的人更幸福。
如果这么想，你可能对幸福的真谛有些误解。
很多聪明的人仍将幸福等同于乐趣。
其实，乐趣和幸福的共同之处极少，或者说根本就没有。
乐趣是行为过程中的感受，而幸福是我们行为过后的感受，它是一种更为深刻、持久的感情。
人们坚信充满欢乐，远离痛苦的生活方式就等于幸福。
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