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&hesenewwordsorphrasesbeforeyoureadthisarticle.
1.apologetically[？，p？l？'d？etik？li]adv.道歉地
&eem['selfis'ti：m]n.自负
3.subtle['s？tl]adj.微妙的；精细的
4.spire[k？n'spai？]v.密谋
5.lionizes['lai？naiz]v.把……奉为名人
6.humiliating[hju：'milieiti？]adj.丢脸的
7.pareto把……比作，比喻为
8.struggleto努力奋斗，竞争
&in坚持，固执于
10.capitulate[k？'pitjuleit]v.屈服
11.iude[i'ju：d]adj.无能
12.inferior[in'fi？ri？]adj.劣质
&uroafriendwhinmydaskedher，“Whatdoyoulikeaboutyourself？”
Werodeinsilenceforseveralminutes.Fiomeandsaid，apologetically，“Ikofanything.”
Iwasstunned.Myfrie，g，andpassioshe’tseeanyofthat.
Ikaloeemhasbeethenumber-oneissueplaguieGod’sassurahe’sabsolutelyostofus’tbelievehemeansus.It’sliketheicaleditorwhotellsthecubreporter，“Ifyourmothersaysshelovesyou，checkitout.”
Iorterfor12years.OhingsIlearnedinreseargastarbagei.”
Ifyourrawdataisflawed，youendupwithafaulty.Thesameistrueeseeourselves.Ifwelackself-ce，maybeithfla>
&yis，inhundredsofsubtleways，ourculture，family，friehoughtlife—spiretoundermineource.Wegrowupinfamiliesvoidofaffirmatiemehebuildingblockstoself-wefindourselvessmathemiddleofaworldthatliowoHollywoodstarletsandBarbie-dollfigures.Ourpaycheck，ourtitle，orsomeotherartificialyardstickgivesustemporaryeheworldofTheAccepted.Butis，weknowitisn’treal.Howdowefindourwaytothetruth？
I’mteybrotallthegeouaingmanuals，ts，ortomakesenseofputers.WhenIfirsthadtolearnhouterformyjob，IwasceditwastheendoflifeasIk.
Irememberwithpainfulclarityabeginner’sputerclasswheretheinstructortoldusto“pressanykey”
.Isearvainforthe“aheendoftheclass，IwasIwasn’tsmartenoughtodrivemyselfhome，muchlessdressforworkthehisitethefactthatImanagedahome，afamily，ajob，andaprofessionalstaff.
Whywasitsohumiliating？Beyselftothe1irldoorwhoeffortlesslysurfedtheoresearchhertermpaperswhileIstruggledjusttologon.Insteadofsimplygthatteicalprowessisrengths，IcludedImustbestupid.It>
Peoplerespectusasmuchaswerespectourselves.That’swhytheabsenceofself-telegraphtoothersnottobelieveinus.
Fgledtoreentgraciously.Ifsomeoneentedmyhair，I’ddistit.I’dsaymyhairstylemademyfacelookfatorthatmyhairwasamousycolor.WhatIreallymeantwas，theremustbesomemistake.I’mnotward.Idon’tlikemyselfand’treallybelieveyoudo，either.Thetroubleis，ifwepersistinputtingourselvesdowuallypeoplestarttobelievewe’reright.
&heproblemisn’tfaultydata.Wehaveaureofourselvesorasituatioulatethefirsttimesomeonegesus.
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