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You'llbehappytoknolelikemeallgetoureuppahersituations.How?Becauseeverybodygetsmindbloekindsoftasks.Mindbloothingtodowithmentalacuity.They'reverymuchapartofthehumanexperieanirritatingpartforwhiotionallyflagellateourselvesabout,asweuetoavoidthetask,thusinage.Weallhavethe

&havedifferentkindsofplaceswherewegetstudifferentkindsoftasks.Myblople,arewithbigtalks.Ieasilyslideintabriefarticleonahalfhrunalongthehillsabovemyseasidevillage.Givemealargertask,however,suchaswritingabintothegymforanhourw"time-waste"tasklikegettingtothedryersasstationandIediabolicallycleveratdegmyselfintoallthereasonswhyI&#htnoillsometimesoon.Soundfamiliar?

Herearesettioakindoftaskyouoftenfindyourselfavoidingandevenfindingwaysthteousasyousavorpletion.

VividlySpetrastingSarios

Picturetheworstacasesituations—iioails—fornanimportanttasknow.Howbadcouldthecesbeifyoudon'tgetitdht?Howexgcoulditbeifyoudiditontimeandsuperbly?Whatifyouiartitlatertoday?Howmanythings"beyondyourtrol"tyettingstarted?Ifyoudid,infact,startitrighthesooyoumightbedoneifyougetdfodallowerruptionsuntilyougettoacrucialstateofpletionoractuallyfinishit?

Whatsmallindulgencecouldyougiveyourselfwhenyou'redoakeabreaktosavortimewithacolleaguewhomakesyoulaugh?Getasurprisegiftforafriendwho'sbeehoughtfulretly?Diveilylesspressingtaskandactuallygetaheadofthecurveforonce?

SeeYourSucandAgain

&ime-pressedlives,allowiosavoreachsuccessisakintonyourpsychetheexperieisfaleted.Justasathleteslearstoimproveperformagvideosofmasterathletes,thenstoreupmemoriesofthoseimagesofsuccessfulwork-outsfortheirtinternalplay-back,yourstored-upmemoriesofeaseintaskotivateyoutohavethosesatisfyingexperieeerallyseeiyourperforma's-f.Youwillbeorenaturallyiodiveinearlyaaskspletedinastateofinwardandrace.

TakeonaBigTask,aBiteataTime

Largeorunfamiliartaskswhereyoudon'tfeelespefidentaboutyourfutureperformaheonesyou'remostlikelytoavoid.Writedowopletion.

CallThisApproach"GoingSlowtoGoFasterLater."

Writingwillmakethestepsmorerealaoyouandyoureablesyouattachtoeachtaskbeorevital.Theyarerightinfrontofyou.Postyour"tasksaable"whereyou'tavoidseeihersofyourenttothatsheet.Theseaswillplacethetaskhigherinyouress.

RewardYourselfandSavorYourRe>

Planyourrewardsaheadoftime.Diligeyouare,don'tdeherewardwhenyouaredoask.Lifegoesbytoofastanyway.Forexample,wheebtasks—andnotbefore—Iallowmyselftimetodosomethingthatgivesmepleasure,suchasastopatabookstoreortimewithafriend.WhenIfinishabigimportanttaskIgivemyselfabiggerrewardsuchasatripor.

SidelongGlangatIt

&imesfagataskstraightonjustmakesyoufreeze.Trytopicturehowtodoitby"sidelongglang",thatisgettingsmallglimpsesoutoftheehowyoumosteasilydothetask.Owaysistetmovingandlookingaround.Intimesofmind—blogerorteoaorewhilewomeoshutdown,movingless,Youwillbemoreawareofyouremotionsandmotivatiointomotion.siderwalkiingorotherwisebeing"onyourway"todoiask.Youwillletyonaturallyfree.

Wheionandnotfogdirewhatyouhavetodo,especiallyifyougetoutsideintothefreshairandsunlight,youliterallyseefarther,gainalargerperspedseehowthepartsofthetaskfittogether.Youwillpullupideasfromlowerinyouress,thinkofappareedideasthatwilldo,infact,haveabearingonwaystogetthetaskdone.Yourunindbeesyourfriendinhelpingynizeyourbestpathtoaplishiask.Aaskwillseemlessonerousbecauseyouliftyourmoodwhenyouputyourselfinmotion.

是否还记得深夜的大学里,朋友们那一张张因焦虑而睡眼惺忪的面孔?那是因为期末考试即将到来,他们在考试前一夜临时抱佛脚努力弥补,也许你也是他们当中的一员。

当时,对于像我这样一本正经,考前每天花点儿时间惬意地读读课堂笔记就能轻松过关的人,你也许憎恨不已。

你们会乐于知道像我这样的人在其他情况下也会有应得的报应。

怎么会这样?因为每个人都会在做某些事情时出现思维障碍。

思维障碍并不等同于智力问题,它会使我们懊恼,陷入自责,这是很常见的经历,试着避免它只会招致更多的损失。

这样的经历我们都曾有过。

只不过,我们会在不同的地方遇到不同的阻碍。

比如说,我的绊脚石,就是听那些冗长而无聊的报告。

我会溜出去写一篇短文,或在早晨沿着我居住的海边乡村的小山跑上半小时。

然而,若是给我一个较大的任务,比如写一本书,在健身房进行一小时锻炼,或类似去干洗店、加油站等既无聊又浪费时间的任务时,我就会变得绝顶聪明,想出一切无法立刻行动的借口,往后推辞。

这些听起来是否很耳熟呢?

下面这些小技巧可以让你不再逃避任务,并且,让你在完成任务后,甚至可以感受到本该拥有的成功与喜悦。

真实详细地比较各种方案

想象一下最好和最坏的情景——把能影响你情绪的所有情况都考虑到——如果你不完成或不立即完成它,后果会有多么严重;如果你按时且精彩地做完,又会是多么令人兴奋;如果今天迟些开始做又会如何;让你不能开始的“不可控因素”

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