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第52章如何真待自我HowtoBeTruetoYou
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斯考特·罗素·桑德斯ScottRussellSanders
Iknewamaall，gentleman，forseveralyearsbeforeIfoundoutthathevisitedprisonersinourlo，weekifordecades.Hewouldwritelettersforthem，carrymessages，fetgorbooks.Butmaiofferedhimself.Hedidhem，didn'tpidchoosebetweenthelikableay，didn'tlookforaurnonhiskihatmatteredwasthattheywereintrouble.
WhydidhespehecouldhavebeenplayinggTV?“Igoincaseeveryoneelsehasgivenupooldmeonevergiveup.”
Nevergivingupisatraitwehonouries，insoldiers，insurvivorsofdisasters，isregfromsevereinjuries.Ifylebravelyagainstodds，you'reliabletoendupontheeveinlessflashy，lesshyforms，fidelitytoamissionorapersonoranoshowsupintlesslivesallaroundus.
Itshowsupiswhowillnotquitlovierevenaftershedyesherhairpurple，tattoosherbellyandrunsoffwitharod.Itshowsupincoupleswhoendtheirmarriagesinsteadoffilingfordivorce.Itshowsupihehospitalorlibraryorwomen&#eorsoupkit.Itshowsupinunsungpeopleeverywherewhodotheirjobswell，hesupervisoriswatgorbecausetheyarepaidgobsofmoheyknowtheir>
WhenmysonJessewas12，histeacherwasdiaghbreastcer.Shetoldtheaboutthedisease，aboutthesurgeryandtherapy，andaboutherhopesforrecovery.Jesseedeeplyimpressedthatshehadtrustedthemwithhernews.Shecouldhavestayedathomefortherestoftheyearonmedicalleave，butassooomyhealed，shebegangoingintoseafterwo，thenafullday，thentwodaysandthree.
arehatshemightberiskihforthesakeofthe，theteacherscoffed，“Oh，heavensno!They'remybestmedie.”
Besides，thesewouldonlybe12once，shesaid，aohelpthemallshecouldwhileshehadthece.
&herapymusthaveworked，beyearslatershe'sg.WhenIseeheraroundtown，shealwaysasksaboutJesse.Ishestillsofunny，sht，soexcitedab?Yes.heis，Itellher，andshebeams.
Aeednotbegraimpressacrowdtobeworthyofourent.IhaveafriendwhobuilthousesfromMondaytoFridayforpeoplewhocouldpayhimaotherhousesforfreeonSaturdayforacharitableanization.Aneighbourmakesherselfavailabletoiioheirfamilies，unravelihepuzzlesoflivinginaherneighbourscoachfootballteams，visitthesick，giveliftstothehouse-bound，tutordropoutsastoread.
Iultiplytheseexamplesahuhmyarea.Mostlikelyyoue.Anyunitywinmusthaveawebofpeoplefaithfultogoodworkaher，orthatunityart.
Tosaythatfidelityisonisnottosayit'seasy，painlessorfree.Itergyandtime，maybealifetime.
Andeveryfirmyeswesayrequiresmanyafirmno.OneSundayIwastalkingwiththemanwhovisitedprisoners，whenayoungroachedtoaskifhewouldjointheboardofaneshewas.Inarushofwordsshetoldhimwhythecausewascrucial，whythetimee，whysheabsolutelyneededhisleadership.Knowingthisman'ssympathies，Ireedhewouldagreetoserve.Butafterlisteningtoherplea，hegazedatherforamomehatlyisavital，worthyofallyourpassion.Butitisnotmy.”
Thegeforallofusistofindthosefewcausesthatarepeculiarlyourowowhichweareclearlydthehemwithallourheart.Byremainingfaithfultoag，wecreatethesfapurposeandapatterninourdays.
Ifyouimagiosolvealltheworld'sproblemsatohough，you'relikelytoquitbeforeyoufinishrollingupyoursleeves.Butifyoustakeoutyourowory，ifyousettleonamanageablenumberofcauses，thenyoumightaplishagreatdeal，allthewhiletrustingthatotherselsewherearewfaithfullyintheiro>
我认识一位先生多年，他修长清瘦，温文尔雅。
后来我发现他日复一日、月复一月地访问我们县城监狱的囚犯，已经坚持了几十年。
他帮助犯人们写信，递条子，捎带衣物和书籍。
然而他仅是帮忙而已。
他不会跟他们讲大道理，不会凭个人好恶，挑三拣四地选择帮助的对象，也不会谋求别人对他的好心以任何回报。
他所关心的是：他们正身陷囹圄。
他本可以把时间花在打高尔夫球或看电视上，为什么要与这些社会的弃儿待在一起？他立即对我说：“我这样做，是因为其他人都对他们不抱希望，而我永远不会放弃对他们的期望。”
“永不放弃”
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