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1.ItisOkaytoMakeMistakes
Makingmistakesissomethingwealldo,andIamstillafihwhilepersonwhehereisnoreasetupsetwheake.Iamtrying,andifImakeamistake,Iamgoingtouetrying.Idlemakingamistake.Itisokayforotherstomakemistakes,too.Itmistakesinmyselfandalsomistakesthatothersmake.
2.EverybodyDoesn'tHavetoLoveMe
Noteverybodyhastolovemeorevenlikeme.Idon'tnecessarilylikeeverybody,Iknow,sowhyshouldeverybodyelselikeme?Ienjoybeinglikedandbeiifsomebodydoesn'tlikeme,IwillstillbeokayandstillfeellikeIamanokayperson.Iakesomebodylikeme,ahansomebodygetmetoliketheIdon'tneedapprovalallthetime.Ifsomeoapproveofme,Iwillstillbeokay.
3.IDon'tHavets
IwillsurviveifthingsaredifferentfromwhatIwaobe.Iagsthetpeoplethewaytheyare,amyselfthewayIaThereisogetupsetifI'tgethingstofitmyideaofhowtheyoughttobe.ThereisnoreasonwhyIshouldhavetolikeeverything.EvenifIdon'tlikeit,Ilivewithit.
4.IamResponsibleforMyDay
IamresponsibleforhowIfeelandwhatIdo.Nobodymakemefeelanything.IfIhavearottenday,Iamtheonewhoallowsittobethatway.IfIhaveagreatday,Iamtheonewhodeservescreditfpositive.ItisnottheresponsibilityofotherpeopletogesothatIfeelbetter.Iamtheonewhoisinylife.
5.IdleItWhenThingsG
Idon'tchst.Thingsusuallygojustfine,aheydon't,Idleit.Idon'thavetowastemyenergyw.Theskywon'tfallin,thingswillbeokay.
6.IamCapable
Idon'tneedsomeoakeyproblems.Iamcapable.Itakeyself.Imakedeyself.Ikformyself.Idon'thavetodependonsomebodyelsetotakee.
7.IbeFlexible
Thereismorethaodosomethihanonepersonhashadgoodideasthatwillwork.Thereisnooneandonly"best"way.Everybodyhasideasthatareworthwhile.Somemaymakemoresehers,buteveryone'sideasareworthwhile,andeveryonehassomethingworthwhiletotribute.
1.犯错没关系
每个人都会犯错。
即使犯了错,我仍然是一个优秀的、有价值的人。
犯错后,没必要惴惴不安。
我一直都在努力,即使犯了错,我还是会继续努力。
我能正确对待犯错,别人犯错也没什么大不了的。
既然我会接受自己犯错,也就会接受别人犯错。
2.并非人人都得爱我
不是每个人都得爱我,或者喜欢我。
我不必喜欢我认识的每一个人,那么为什么其他人都应该喜欢我呢?我很乐意被人喜欢或被人爱,如果有人不喜欢我,我仍然会活得很好,也觉得自己很好。
我不能强求别人喜欢我,正如别人也不能强求我喜欢他。
我不需要总是被认可。
即使别人不认同我,我仍然会活得很好。
3.不必事必躬亲
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